I have been sitting here at work utterly bored out of my mind......

I was thinking about the things that define us as people.....here is my list of things I can think of that define me some are good...some are well they just are...oh and these are in no particular order it is just how I think of them....
1. that I am a girl...(I don't think this is a bad thing at all, it comes in handy when things are heavy or you have to go to the auto parts store)
2. My Religion. ...( which is good most times, but I don't like people to assume that I think/or act a certain way because of my church. I am my own person and I have my own thoughts)
3. My marriage....( think that is a wonderful thing...mostly because I love my husband very much but also it tells you something about me and my values)
4. being from CA...( i have learned that being from CA means that you think differently about certain things like how vegetables are supposed to look and taste)
5. my hair color....( I have recently learned that red heads have certain perks like we are more attractive....and downfalls like we are less desirable to other females because we are more attractive) ... **I must note that this is the opinion of many not just me being vain I really don't want to be checked out by lots of people...**
6. my calling.....( I hate that this defines me...not because I don't love primary or anything...just because I don't think it is fair that we should be defined by something that we are asked to do, I mean it isn't like I ran for president or anything...I was asked to serve and I did....nothing more)
7. my weight....( not that I think that it is great...but I do know that some people define me by my lack of skinny)
8. my lack of children....( I don't know if this is more me defining myself so that others can't or not by I now that sometimes I wear it like a "red badge of courage".... I shouldn't everything has bad things and things they don't like...I shouldn't get to be special because of mine)
9. my income....( I hate this as well...mostly because I am to rich to be poor and to poor to be rich...so I am kinda floating in purgatory... also I have never much cared for peoples comments on how nice my stuff is....or look how much you must have spent on that...I just don't think it is there business)
I think the whole point of this soap box there are things that I think that I am defined by that I don't like, either because they are not really fair or they are stupid...and there are things that we define everyone by, myself included.... that we shouldn't. I think that people should be defined by what is in there hearts first and then there actions....because in the end those are the things that matter....not what color hair, or how much money or any of that other stuff...but who they are as a person that is what matters....
I guess I have been seeing allot of this lately and well....yeah I hope it to be something I can change within my self. I guess I will add it to my list of things that would make me a better person...and see how it goes... :)